I suggest that a quick call to the largest local newpaper will get an article about the ATC people who "command" you to conflict with known traffic (all true - who cares about the kind of license the microlight facility has? the metal that your rotor eats will still taste bitter!)
I am constantly amazed at folks who park their brains neatly when someone publishes a rule book. Traffic is traffic, and vectoring you into someone elses traffic is simply unwise.