awss2,
Let me give you some examples in order for you to understand the term CIVILIZED for I fear you do not comprehend it's true meaning.
Civilized is when your society has embraced human rights
Civilized is when your society encourages freedom of speech
Civilized is having a high state of culture and development both social and technological
Civilized is when you don't marry your first cousin
Civilized is when you drive your car you don't have your baby in your lap and the other 7 kids hanging out the windows
Civilized is when you respect the Indian laborer as you would your own brother
Civilized is when you see a dog crossing the street you brake and not accelerate
Hope that clears things up dear chappy
Cheers
Capt Fluffies