Beags, you mention the land/roll/touch and go/overshoot stuff. Personally I like the 'option' - do what you want, from an ATC perspective I don't really care. If I can't give you the 'option', then I will tell you what I can give you (ie 'overshoot only not below ... etc).
Of course, suggestions like that will take until the next millenium to be staffed.