I agree. If someone annoys us on board, the first thing we do is go into the galley and have a whinge about the 'fat animal who wanted pringles'
I have never seen this reflected in the cabin though. From what i have seen crew are generally friendly and handle all situations well.
Lets not take take what we do out of proportion.
Thick pax comment/s: You usually get at least one when a female FO/Capt speaks over the PA. Even to the extent that on disembarking 'Chavs' (I think that is what the English refer to them as
they will poke their head in the F/D and say 'I didnt believe it - a female driver got us here safely!'