Tappers' Dad & 'the other half',
I hope that 'others need to be right' doesn't overshadow the truth, whatever that may be. I can only offer my condolences to you, and wish that you and yours find peace and some consolation in the fact that it is obvious your loved ones meant an awful lot to many others. The video on YouTube moved me, as I am sure it will many others. All the best,
someone going back to Kandahar.