Jet Jackal made a good point about some reasons to stay calm, not just that many of us might have some of the better jobs, and we can't really argue or refuse searches.
If you have ever been through a divorce, just remember the phrase that can (did) help, and can help you in an airport, from Shakespeare: "misery loves company". Which means, if the person can NOT drag you down to their level of unhappiness or limited authority (only right here and now), they are always disappointed. You have won a small victory.
Also, you might have young kids watching you too. All of the personnel I've encountered since Sept 11 have actually tried to be tactful and somewhat respectful, even if it looks silly to undue one's belt for a few seconds.
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