dogstar2
The answers to most of your questions can be supplied by BA. Just give them a ring and they will send you the info. PM me if you want John M's internal number.
Point 2 about pensions is best answered by......... BA Pensions
Give them a ring at Whitelock house - they are really switched on.
Commuting - seems like about 40% of flight crew are "air" commuters these days (me included) - it's a pain but by planning ahead and having back up plans it's do-able.
Hope you enjoy BA..............