AOL woes
Unfortunate that you are having such problems with AOL... I've been with them for a while now and found them to be as good if not better than other BB suppliers I've used.
Had big problems with Virgin Internet, even worse problems with UK Online, before finally going with aol and never having a problem since. I guess its just luck of the draw. I'm using my own router though, and don't have any aol software installed on my computers either.
If I did I'm sure I'd have a different story to tell!