Simply don't see what all the fuss is about...
Leaving aside the relationship issue, which has already been done to death, I don't see the problem with a few drink-related high jinks by UAS members. Of course UAS studes can sometimes be a noisy obnoxious bunch, but in my experience (not so long ago!), UAS events - though usually drunken - rarely (if ever) involved drugs and rarely (if ever) ended in violence...in which case, UAS studes are better behaved than 95% of people their age. Aren't there more important things to complain about than a bit of youthful exuberance?