Just a quick one. DHE own and manage the houses on behalf on MOD. The individual Stn Commander is 'the person' responsible for who goes in those houses. You just need a stash with a sympathic ear, bit of common sense and a bunch of balls to give you the nod. Annoyed DHE, but tough.
You can do it - trust me I did (10 months prior to getting married).
'Live by the rules and you never change a thing'.