Elmlea
Had the same myself, wife to be 6 months pregnant, me due an OOA asked families officer for a surplus MQ at the base I was at as there were Plenty going, Politely told by Families Officer on the 20th of the first month to "Poke Off" see me "when your are married". So did just that, Married at Witney Registrars Office on the 2nd of the next month, Moved into a quarter on the 4th of that month and spent my Honeymoon OOA for the rest of the six months, Including missing my son being born!!. How good was that
If I were you go the Civil partnership route, seems to work well here, I dont know about anywhere else, The DHE/Allocation people here seem to bend over backwards to help
Sorry no pun intended
Just a thought