Mike Lin's
Startup Control Panel -
http://www.mlin.net/StartupCPL.shtml - is what you need.
It's been around for a long time and is reliable and stable (and free).
Don't use Microsoft's feeble msconfig for anything except debugging purposes, Windows will complain everytime you boot and it isn't meant for that.
If you want more detail and more control, use Mark Russinovich's
Autoruns -
http://www.microsoft.com/technet/sys.../Autoruns.mspx - Mark now works for MS and still maintains Autoruns, so it is almost MS approved.