I was told that i could to the APP two ways: stay in Florida and do the ATPLS while working as an instructor
Slight problem with that.
You cannot undertake the JAA FI(R) course until you have completed and passed the ATPL / CPL exams.
You could of course go down the FAA route and then convert to JAA later but this would require you to undertake the FAA CPL and CFI courses, with their written exams and flight tests.
Whilst working as a FAA CFI, once the JAA theory has been completed, you can then undertake ICAO - JAA CPL conversion and a reduced JAA FI (R) course which comprises 15 hrs flight and 30 hrs ground training, compared to the standard 30 / 125 hrs.
Suggest you clarify which way EFT intends to do things. Trevor is a top guy and I'm sure he'll tell you straight if you ask him.
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