I guess it's partly a culture thing that the services will some day have to address - but I don't know how.
The fruits of my loins are all doing well in their jobs, and enjoyed immensely much of the service life. They also accept that to advance in any profession you have to move around. What they found very difficult in the service context was the lack of choice in those moves.......
Hence no junior teeters in uniforms ....... about which I have very mixed feelings......