Billy
I hate to tell you this but the great majority of heterosexual men do not spend their time thinking that
homosexuality is perverse, immoral, unattractive and just plain wrong.
What time they do spend thinking about sex, they spend thinking about women. Most well-adjusted heterosexual men's views of homosexuality amount to not much more than "It's not my bag!" or "more rampant totty for me!"
For someone with such a visceral loathing for homosexuality, you seem to have spent an inordinate amount of time studying the subject. It is usually the self-loathing closet homosexual who has to bolster the control of his own desires with a scaffold of quasi-moral (usually inspired by some type of God-bothering) thoughts.
Incidentally, I was in in the mid-90s and certainly don't recognise the picture of the RAF that you paint.