Kaptin M, must have spent a sleepless night doing your bit of research. Trouble is, it means didly squat. You have to try to put it in context and not the odd phrases here or there. VS is far from being the whiter than white she appears to be. "Personally I find Velvet's language quite restrained......." Well you would wouldn't you? If she asked you to jump off the Telekom Tower you'll only be too happy to obliged. What's the old adage ' If you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen'
Stop whingeing or heed the saying.
----------------
Just because we don't get any complaints doesn't mean our parachutes are perfect.