Glad, Farside is a teetotaller, however, like you his first language is not English. Have you stopped to think that perhaps others ask themselves the same question of you, when reading your posts!
Alfredo_Garcia, below are a few extracts from Gladiator,titan, and Goldwing, wrt Velvet Strokes;
Please find a boyfriend for alternate form of satisfaction
Always trying hard to suck me into an argument.
Your Profile: Professional chat room participant looking for something different.
Interests: Wants to get laid by a pilot.
Favorite movie: An Officer and a Gentleman
Marital status: Divorsed, can't get a date.
Physical profile: What do you think if it has to resort to the internet.
Have you gotten l**d yet?
Velvet puurr get a boyfriend.
My,aren't you the sensitive one Velvetstrokes. Asking you to get a boyfriend isn't abuse unless of course you're lesbian.
Personally, I find Velvet’s language quite restrained, her usage of English eloquent, but aptly suitable for the occasion, when warranted.