any name suggestions would be great, i especially need to know ones that mean survivor, precious gift, blessing etc. reason why? i found out yesterday at best she'll need major surgery at worst disabled. just when you think that life can't kick you anymore. losing bob came at the end of two horrific years, now this. i've tried/waited over five years for her and now i don't even know if i'll even get to take her home. i must be such a horrible person because if there is anything in the truth of karma i am paying,big time. i've another scan on monday, in the mean time i'm going to try and get my head around how i'm going to cope with this.