A different time, with different values and diferent pressures. To even have the temerity to 2nd guess the situation then is total bollocks. I don't care how well researched or how many "I was there" statements it just is not possible to judge history with todays ethics.
Having said that.
Bomber command served, and served well. They deserve kudos and not brick-bats.
I'm proud of my parentage, those who served (and died) and those who get very very very drunk before they spill the beans. My children wear their poppies with pride - currently 'cos I ask them too but soon because they will won't too. And if they don't - that's their choice too.