Rotordog,
Just a few points.
1. Whirlybird is not a wannabee - shes is an "is".
2. Neither of us have contradicted anything that the older, experienced pilots have said - all comments have been taken on board and inwardly digested.
3. Neither have I spent any time on this forum hand-wringing or agonizing about the decision.
The problem is that we come from a different perspective - you say "Life is too short". Spot on - we agree there. However, I don't have a family; therefore quality family time at Christmas means Sweet FA to me. I have a job with a high salary and it no longer means anything to me. All that happens is that I buy stuff and it's just stuff. I don't need it.
One of your points is about "if you're not enjoying your life - change it". Again, absolutely spot on!
Life's goals and priorities change and one should change with that.
So you see, I think ultimately, we agree.
Cheers
Whirlygig