I certainly didn't get some of the innuendo and puzzled responses at the way I acted, as I did with the men.
That's because she understood your logic of why you were doing things. She had seen it or done it herself during training.
Its not just flying this problem arises. Driver training is exactly the same.
While teaching HGV you have to get the students to think about the mass of the machine and the amount of lethal damage it will do if you miss handle it.
The discussion I used to do was along the lines of your driving down a urban main road at 30 mph and a cat runs out (this goes for cars as well BTW). What do you do?
95% women and about 10% of blokes would say they would perform an emergency stop try and avoid it.
Which isn't the right answer (and nor is ignore it and do nothing)
But 100% gave the correct answer for a child running out who was chasing the cat.
The different sex's allocate different priorites to actions you just have to get used to this fact. And adjust your teaching to suit. I agree that alot more should be done to understand the differences and to incorporate into instructors training. There are more and more lady pilots about which is a good thing. And it is also a huge market (in the grand scale of a very small market) which I think the majority of schools have failed to capitalise on.
PS i think the mods should do a bit of editing into a new thread and leave this thread as a monument to the flying progress of the flying babe who is mad girl