Ok.....
Id like to stop ot thank everyone for their input so far I really do appreciate it. It would seem the more I dig into this area the less chance I seem to have of making this work, however maybe discussing with some charter companies in blackbushe is an idea. Do you know where I should look for a list of charter airlines based there?
There would be little baggage a couple of small school bags for clothes for the weekend and thats about it.
I have done the staying in norwich bit but its not the same as your in a hotel room ,where at home your more comfortable and the kids can do as they please I am about to leave to do the trip at 1pm and thanks for those who sympathise with the situation, after a 6 year court battle this is the best I can expect unfortunately.
I am hellbent on doing it by air so would be keen to have any contacts that may be able to help in the charter arena
Also I was not aware that you could go from southampton to Norwich, from my understanding the closest south you can go from norwch is Bristol? Any links to that info would be useful too
Michael