Understand totally.
First think where do you want to end up. In the States, NZ, OZ, Canada, Uk?????
I know you probably think I dont care as long as I get a job and paid for flying, but you do need a plan especially if time is not on your side ie age.
The states is a good start provided you can get a visa.
Have you thought about doing the JAA exams in the mean time either full time or self study? It,s not as expensive as flying but it will progress you further. Once you have passed the exams get 185 hrs and take the flight test to get your JAA CPL. At least if the North Sea went through another boom like it has recently you would be in a better position and ready to go.
If the UK is of no interest to you then try the states. Plenty of work as an instructor.
Decide what the final goal is then let me know.
Good luck.