Please don't misunderstand me ABIW, I'm not hunting for sympathy nor trying to compare our series of night stops with a 6 month det, but merely trying to point out that a delay also messes me around, therefore i'm not going to manufacture delays so I can have another night in a hotel.
I have nothing but respect and sympathy for those that do 6 months away, and then get messed around when trying to finally get home, however I do take exception to people suggesting I manufacture said delays so that I may spend another night somewhere.