'Korean rules' might be OK for a few juvenile baby co-piglets, but require inappropriate behaviour before the loyal toast, which is a distinct no-no.
Having seen the look of embarrassment on the face of a senior guest when expected to eat his dessert without the benefit of cutlery, I suggest that you abandon any such childish stupidity - particularly at such a small dinner.
What you are being expected to organise is probably nothing out of the ordinary for some RN wardrooms; perhaps the Senior Service may be able to advise you (if you need such advice) how to enjoy such a convivial event without it being dull?
Last edited by BEagle; 18th Oct 2006 at 07:58.