DON'T MARRY AN AMERICAN WOMAN. You will need to have 3 jobs in the same time: a job as a 30 years senior Captain at United, a job as an well established lawyer, a job as a succesfull doctor. Working all three jobs in the same time will just keep you afloat for very very very little time. After the divorce you will need at least 3 more jobs for many, many years to pay for the period when you were married. Plus they are fat with a big attitude and the sex is not that great.