i agree. flare to maintain level, and once your nosewheel is definately up, just let it settle.
The faster you are, the longer you'll float and the smoother it'll be. Id say try it fast on a long runway, then come in progressively slower until it becomes one continuous movement. Eventually you'll be stopping on the piano keys. less frustrating I found, and in no time, you'll be wondering what all the fuss was about