So prepmatt, what kind of experience did you get from this instructor?? Never can start too early... and what did you mean with drunk-womanizers? That we only go after the drunk women? That's not vary charming to say!
By the way, it takes two to Tango, so I don't think you can blame one party when something happens.
And when you don't get any serious answers, check out
http://www.pt7.com/. Maybe they can help you out