Help given...it starts with YOU
To Wingbar and anyone else who feels they're are their wits end.
There is nothing to be gained from whining, especially on this forum. Don't know if you have studied quantum phsyics. Our thoughts effect the electro-magnetic field around us. Like attracts like. If you are moaning and being negative about life what do you think you will attract into your life? The situations and circumstances to confirm what you are "putting out" into the universe.
Try changing your attitude, see yourself in a new situation, the one you WANT to be in. See your problem resolved (but not how it's going to get there, but be open to any path that leads to the resolution). Close your eyes when you are in bed and see it, feel it. Maintain this during your waking hours. If you do it correctly you will see a change eventually. The power is within us all. Just need to know how to tap into it.
This is not a philosophy, as it has worked for me.
The buck starts and stops with YOU. There is ALWAYS a solution.
Good luck.