Originally Posted by MLS-12D
Good analogy. Mess dress on a cadet leader is very similar to epaulettes on a PPL: pretentious, but perfectly 'legal'. And both affectations are quite harmless.
I think you misunderstood. The reason many female RAFVR(T) officers and NCOs wear evening dress rather than Mess Dress is because they don't like the Mess Dress. Nothing to do with feeling pretentious in it.
Yes I was Mr Vice, did think it was a good idea to wear Mess Dress for the occasion, and will continue to do so. I worked hard as a Civilian Instructor, worked hard to get my commission and continue to work hard as an officer. I wear my uniform with pride.