HP is right !!!
Sarka,
send your husband in recognition there for some weeks, ask him impressions and then decide together what is better to do. I think nobody in here can help you with your such personal questions.
Even your family is so unusual, two pilots & two kids; I guess it's so hard to find just another couple exactly in the same conditions!
I believe is much better if you split your family for a while instead sending persisting requests in here.
Good luck.
guest27