Scroggs,
As a fellow Mod, I know exactly what you are saying and I feel the same way most of the time.
Taking an additude (and it appears that you did have one in #194) is helping no one and making most people feel like MOR's comment.
The "If you do not like it, then leave" attitude is helping no one. Lets work together and make it work better. If someone has a complaint then it might be worth actually stepping back and looking at it from their viewpoint instead of jumping on their nuts.
Mods are people and they have good and bad days. When they have bad days it might be better to go off and have a pint at the pub IMHO. Thats what I do and started doing that after a few of my posters on another forum took me aside and pointed out where I was wrong. We are all human and at times make mistakes. (well, except for some copilots and they know it all!
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