I have... not in this country, but I have. In my case, it all ended up in court.
In such a situation, you can either act with dignity, or you can become a thug. Your choice.
The only place that the "S" word exists forever, is in the bitter and twisted minds of those who choose to remember it. People who can't move on, and who are doomed to a lifetime of bitterness and regret.
Before, I just thought you were an over-agressive union goon, but now I just feel sorry for you.
Perhaps you should try educating the over-zealous youngsters on here about what actually happens when you start something you can't finish.