TOT,
Seeing as you like talking about dogs, how about "let sleeping dogs lie!"
I think being British you should understand that one! You have stirred the proverbial sh*t long enough now and it's time to move on.
What's done is done and should there be a next time I'm sure everyone on this thread will think twice before just setting down anywhere.
We're all pilots of some form so let's act like it and try and get on!
I'll get off my soap box now!
Cpt Jim