I was in the same boat as RG Girl. Over three years, i think we managed about a year and a half together, and only cause she moved for me to some of these second world countries. We didnt make it in the end. I couldnt give her any security cause i didnt know where this job would take me next. Long distance is really hard and killed us. Having said that, Im now in a stable job back here at home, and found a really great girl!! Life is funny like that