Ok. All points and criticisms taken and accepted. I hereby unreservedly apologise to the young lady and anyone else I may have offended. Sorry.
Back on thread, although I agree with Mike Jenvey about FO experience, you can also argue that since Max Demonstrated Limiting crosswinds are usually not an everyday occurrence, line captains need the practice too. If there is a realistic Flt Sim for type, maybe that's a good place for RHS pilots to get extra practice. I do think it's a bit too much to expect a normal line pilot to recover from a badly executed attempt in the real world.
Best regards to All,
rts