Family? - When I was in, my family didn't get to see me, I didn't know my kids nor my missus and a social life was impossible.
God? - The politicians for whom we work are absolute bunch of of immoral, Faithless, Godless and souless bunch of hypocritical, selfish heathens, whom I wouldn't trust to sit the right way on a toilet.
Country? - Hardly anyone outside these threads knows nor cares about the Armed Forces - ask anyone in the street about what the Services do for them - you will undoubtedly get the 'i'm not boffered' response.
The US citizens treat and respect their Forces sooo much better than we do ours. Very sad but true -thats why I got out.
At least, when you work for a civvy firm, you know they don't give tuppence about you.