If:-
we are trying to understand what could have happened on that plane
Then why have you decided:-
We don't think the pilots are to blame
BEFORE you:-
looks at all the facts in an investigative way.
As for:-
be gentle, i'm a lady!
I think you'll find that gutter-living journos here to do stich-ups without knowing what the hell they are talking about are about as welcome as a fart in a spacesuit!!!
Oh... Welcome to PPRUNE!!