I'm so proud of you dad !
What have you done for your fellow human beings?
Just eating the cake and served your own selfish narrow interests?
You might have felt more connected, dignity and had a better relationship to your self and your family if you had done "the right thing"
It's mainly your loss and know you are the kind of guy who will suffer in silence.
Like your wife, kids and fellow co-workers.
Do you want your son to be like you and your dad?
or break the circle and gain respect?
Try not taking things personally and always be Mr. right, give unconditional love,support and seek win/win
" It's always the right time to do the right thing"
Martin Luther King