Just ignore them
flygirl79, just ignore them. I am with you when all you want is a genuine advise and you get comments that can be classed as unconstructive or even offensive sometimes. I wonder why some people are like that. Believe me, I cop those too. So, just ignore them.
Guys, just get to the point. If you have the info that can genuinely help flygirl79 let's hear it and just the info she is after. Otherwise.....
Goodluck with your search
D6