Chappie, I share your grief and offer you my total support as well as my heartfelt condolences.
I do see and understand the comments made by Tourist, although on this particular occasion I do not agree with him.
The Winco makes a good point about ultimate responsibility resting with the employer, this being HMG in this case and their hypocracy, when it comes to accepting liability in these matters, disgusts me.
It makes me ashamed to be British frankly.
Best wishes with your cause
Kind regards
TSM