SAS, hows this,
Point 6, Humility , you have to have it before you start, you can't take a class, no matter how much you go through the motions, you cannot fake it.
Once you have developed that, you can then really shine, because as a person, you'll never feel threatened, then you can give all to your team and it really clicks in, Betcha Bill never felt threatened, as the perception was in the cadets eyes , not his, and now ours.
by the way, the measure of a leader is not how good he leads, its how well he protects his team when the sh** hits the fan.
here endeth the lesson.