The man is right. Not every secret society is bad. My grandfather introcduced me to his society (TOC H) some years ago and I have been an active member for some years. Its no big secret what we do, nor do we shout from the roof tops.
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I was about to join - you've put me right off!
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Oooohhhhhh, shame. I am so so so sorry. Sorry to have messed up your career plans........
Bye then.............