ukatco_535 (particularly),
I did not intend this to be a slagging match and certainly have not expected to be analysed by some atco as to what type of a person I might or might not be.
Stick to your atco facts and no further. I have not attempted nor am I interested in discribing your possible character (although it does sound a bit defensive/angry) on these pages so wind your neck in.
I read with some relief that there may be a small group of people understanding my dilemma, thank you to those.