So you want the thread to be more like Happy hour in the Wardroom.
In Wardroom/Officers Mess happy hours there are only officers.(Apart from the stewards to tidy up afterwards, of course.)
There are no spotters.
Occasional Cadets, potential Officer candidates, URNU's and UAS's
There are no Journos.
Pussers are totally ostracised
Engineers are mostly ignored.
As are zoomies.
Actually, I can see your point........and kind of like it...