A large amount of garbage being thrown up on this thread.
The Service Test. When considering possible cases of social misconduct, and in determining whether the Service has a duty to intervene in the personal lives of its personnel, Commanding Officers at every level must consider each case against the following Service Test:
"Have the actions or behaviour of an individual adversely impacted or are they likely to impact on the efficiency or operational effectiveness of the Service?"
Most sexual relationships, when considered against this criteria, pass the test. In such cases the MOD has no more rights to intervene than a Supermarket would have over any 2 consenting adults in their employ. Sad but true!