Underahat (or is it Underaspell?)
everyone has a different side to a story. You talk about relationships, well they are not one night stands and take two to tango. Do you have affections for said woman yourself? and therefore wish to leap in because you feel Jealous? The woman sounds old enough to make her own decision, could
just be telling you a slightly different story to hide other things/feelings perhaps?
I was once at a unit where a guy thought his girlfriend may have been carrying on with her boss, he confronted his girlfriend who claimed harrassment and it 'is not her fault', in the middle of a fairly large tiff i may add. The boyfriend told girlfriend she must complain or loose him, so she did. Her boss who had an exemplary carrer was given a 24 hour posting. They arranged an invesigation, 3 months later the female admitted that it was all a fabrication caused by the pressure of the other party. All too late, because S**T sticks (ask Matthew Kelly), the officer (excellent conduct) never returned to post, he lost his wife and family, because his wife believed he had been adultorous and all because somebod stuck their nose in when it shouldnt have been done.
If YOU witness impropriety or unacceptable behaviour you have a duty to intervene and act. If you hear 3rd or 4th hand then tread very very carefully. 'Relationships' are complex emotional things where all is not always as it seems.
DO NOT go to friendly OC PSF unless you have 100% proof, evidence (and that means from both sides), you then involve them (OC PSF)in an issue that could just be nothing. If it is something and genuine, then the woman concerned can act without fear of job loss/ career loss etc.
Last edited by Tigs2; 30th Jan 2006 at 14:09.