thank you for youre replys. its good to hear opinions on this subject. i hope i have not brought any negative thoughts to anyone, just needed to hear youre views.
and thanks for the suggested flight schools. i have logged three hours at cabair (biggin hill) because they have newer aircraft than any other school in biggin, and though more expensive, they do seem very proffesional. however i have nothing to compare them to as this is the only school iv flown with. but i will check out schools as suggested in stapleford as i havnt heard great things about cabair recently.
again thanks.