Bronte, me thinks your words and your attitude speak for themselves.........
Build a bridge and get over it. Concerted efforts like yours to just be a pain in the RRR's are the sign of someone not secure in themselves and the wish to create havoc form behind a front of anonimity.
Once you have calmed down after reading this, you might ponder just how short a time we actually do get here, why not enjoy it?