Now I know this is going to annoy some people but I am closing this thread.
It has gone from a condolences thread to all over the place, I am suprised it took me three pages to do this.
I refer to Whirly's post on page one as one of my reasons for this descision.
If you think people may learn from this kind of event/accident then start another thread on why you think this happened.
As usual, if you want to take this further, PM or email me
[email protected].